“’Say Something’ feels like an anomaly. It feels like a monster. It feels like something that happens once in a lifetime.” (Photos: Epic Records)

While you were crying over that song back in 2014, out musician Chad King and his bestie Ian Axel were figuring out their next move. Could A Great Big World, as theyre collectively known, have lightning strike twice in the form of another colossal Christina Aguilera-assisted tearjerker?

After “Say Something,” which featured Aguileras harmonious flutters, peaked at No. 4 on the Billboard Hot 100 chart in late 2013 and won the threesome a 2015 Grammy for Best Pop Duo/Group Performance, even they realized that that kind of lightning-in-a-bottle success was likely inimitable. Still, the crushing ballad gave considerable clout to the two albums that followed it: their 2014 debut, Is There Anybody Out There?, and its 2015 follow-up, When the Morning Comes.

With a third album on the way, and its lead bop, Younger,out now, we caught up with King to discuss writing about dressing in his moms clothes as a kid, finding their true selves, and how Paris Is Burning inspired a musical moment.

On Younger,you revel in the nostalgia of playing with Barbies and doing fashion shows. What were these fashions like? Did you strut?

Yeah, I remember going through my moms closet with my younger brother and putting on her heels, putting on her dresses, and stuffing the dress with padding to make it look like we had boobs. Then, as a whole family, wed sit down on the living room couch, and me and my brother would come out and just work it. And theyd all cheer for us. I never thought I would be singing about that, but Im glad it made its way into the music.

How did the song come about?

Youngerwas actually the first song we wrote for this album, and it morphed into this tune where its like, lets tap into our childhood: what we remember, why we were so happy then, and what was so exciting liberating about being that kid.

I remember playing house with my neighbor down the street, playing with her Barbies and feeling like no one was going to come and hurt me. I was safe to be and act however I wanted to act, and there was just something so freeing about that moment.

After two albums, why self-title this one?  

Is There Anybody Out There? was a collection of songs that me and Ian had written over the first five years of our friendship. One of those songs was Say Something,and Say Somethinghad the life that it had, and all of a sudden we found ourselves in this pop world. We also found ourselves feeling a bit of pressure to stay in that world, and thats when the second album came out. Then the second record did what it did — or didnt do.

And then it came time for the third album. We were like, lets go back to writing for ourselves again. We took six months to write this album, and we are so proud of these songs. We feel this is the most true to who we are — and that our sound or music has ever been — so it made sense to us that it would be a self-titled record. It was like, OK, this is A Great Big World.It feels like an arrival moment.

Even though Say Somethingwas a mega-pop hit, the first album it appeared on was rooted in a musical-theater sound. Have you worked your fondness for theater into this album?

Yeah, absolutely. Youngeris a really good example. Its so theatrical, narratively. I feel like we write really well to a narrative, or in that context of storytelling. We have a song called When I Am Kingthat is also super-theatrical and Queen-like that Im really excited about. This record has theatricality all over it.

And how did the iconic queer film Paris Is Burning [about the drag-ball scene in New York in the late ’80s] become the inspiration for Hooray for You?

I showed everyone the clip of [drag legend] Dorian Corey at the very end of Paris Is Burning having that moment in front of the mirror, where shes applying her makeup and saying, You dont have to bend the whole word. I think its better to just enjoy it.And at the end she goes, If you shoot an arrow and it goes real high, hooray for you.And we did something really special with that moment: We took a sample and made it into a track of its own that Im really excited for people to hear.

Its exciting to have this on a record — like, this will live forever. And also to push Paris Is Burning because that movie is iconic and brilliant, and I only just found out about it last year.

I imagine after Say Somethingthe pressure to top yourselves or reach that same level again was immense.

In the moment, we would never say theres pressure. Id be like, No, were just writing!Id probably say that. Yeah, we love writing!But looking back and reflecting on how we wrote with all sorts of pop writers and pop producers, its very clear we were going through the motions of creating something under this pressure. Even if it was subconscious, there was this pressure, for sure.

That song feels like an anomaly. It feels like a monster. It feels like something that happens once in a lifetime. So, to follow that up is yeah, theres a ton of pressure.

Did you have people around you asking you to recapture that magic?

Yeah, we had a couple moments where people were like, We want you to write Say Somethingfor us.So we had to go through the motions of writing another song like Say Something.

Theres actually one song that we have oh, I dont know if its official. I cant tell you. But we have a song that looks like its gonna be making another artists record, and their original briefing to us was, We love the emotion behind Say Something.Can you give us a song like this?So, me and Ian tapped into that, and it looks like well be getting the song on his record. But I think Say Somethingcame from such an emotionally charged place that its hard to recreate if youre not experiencing that in the moment.

You wrote a great essay for Out about being a gay man with multiple sclerosis. Do you hear from other gay people with MS?

At the time, I remember people coming to me and saying like, I had this trauma around my MS,and sort of validating my theory: this mind-body connection, that there is nothing separate about it. The fact that I came out and two weeks later I was diagnosed with MS is not a coincidence. I have no doubt that that is not a coincidence.

It just didnt feel random to me. It felt like, What the hell is going on with my body, and why would it be going through this right now?And so my sexuality was tied in completely to that, and that was so monumental of a discovery for me.

The landscape for out LGBT musicians has changed even since 2014. There are more artists who are out from the get-go. Is this an even better time to be an out gay musician than it was when you released your debut?

Actually, Im a little jealous of anyone just now entering this music scene because its like being gay today versus being gay 20 years ago. Its not the same thing. Its just not. Its so awesome that kids have nothing to fear when theyre singing about who they love it could be a guy and a guy, or a girl and a girl, and it works, and everyone accepts it, and its beautiful.

I think the landscape is going to change even more in the next year. I went and saw Tyler, the Creator — and this was the first time I ever really listened to his music or listened to the lyrics — and I was like, Whoa, hes singing about a cute boy and he has all these hardcore rap fans.” It was so cool to see.

I think this is a really beautiful time to be out and an artist and be free with your expression. The fear I had with Hold Each Other,where I felt like it couldnt be from the male perspective about another male, that feels like its gone now.

So, I take it youll be writing with male pronouns on this upcoming release?

Yeah, I do on this record coming out. I do it more. And it was freeing and easier, and it was beautiful. So, Im really excited for people to get even more gay music from us. [Laughs.]